Book

Joyful, Anyway

You can't always be happy, but you can be joyful, anyway. We live in a culture convinced that chasing happiness will optimize our bodies, our minds, our relationships, our lives. But in the meantime, bad news usually stays bad: Illness, chronic pain, grief, and disappointment don’t obey our timelines or vision boards. We are left wondering why, if we’re doing everything right, life still feels so hard. Honest and bracingly tender, Joyful, Anyway proves that experiencing joy does not depend on everything getting better. Drawing on a decade of living with serious illness and a lifetime studying North America’s obsession with progress, New York Times bestselling author and Duke University professor Kate Bowler shows why people so busy chasing happiness miss out on actual joy. Joy isn’t something you can optimize or manufacture; it finds us at the edge of expectation, where life interrupts our scripts. Joyful, Anyway gives us language for the ache we all carry and practices for putting ourselves “in the way of joy”: loosening control, introducing novelty, choosing charity, and staying open to the surprising, Technicolor moments that pull us back into life. Joy reminds us that, no matter what, life is still worth loving. For every time we ask Is this it?, joy will answer: There is more.